tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8639076133899625777.post1159253432795713111..comments2023-10-25T16:33:56.428+05:30Comments on MOTIFS ON THE WALL: THE OTHER WOMANMotifshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11298088181053343977noreply@blogger.comBlogger39125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8639076133899625777.post-11933125257168824152011-11-29T16:06:57.950+05:302011-11-29T16:06:57.950+05:30Good oneGood oneRajendra Raikwarhttp://corpusmoney.wordpress.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8639076133899625777.post-14513121660548621712011-06-15T19:20:59.907+05:302011-06-15T19:20:59.907+05:30very nicely done....
though i neither have my symp...very nicely done....<br />though i neither have my sympathy with woman who have this sort of relation nor do i just hate them or blame for what they do.....i never ever try to be judgmental in this issue....what i say is if it is wrong, it should be wrong for Men too..and he should also get all slaps what these women gets from society but unfortunately men come out so clean of it....Irfanuddinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17931968343851910523noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8639076133899625777.post-53864855190220080002011-06-15T18:50:22.727+05:302011-06-15T18:50:22.727+05:30Hi Aplana, a great perspective on the "other&...Hi Aplana, a great perspective on the "other" woman. When my husband left me for a school girl after 10 years of marriage I never blamed her. I blamed him. Like you say she is not a bad person but has since turned into one especially where my children are concerned. So in a way I have mixed emotions reading this.<br /><br />Great post! Hugs!!!!Nelietahttp://nelietatravellingadventures.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8639076133899625777.post-57918978698287452102011-05-14T21:17:41.438+05:302011-05-14T21:17:41.438+05:30Lucille Ball said "I'd rather regret some...Lucille Ball said "I'd rather regret something I did than regret something I didn't do." I donno if I will regret this or not dear friend, but I am truly enjoying it and happy with it. Sometimes there is a method to the madness called Life... (or Love). As long as one is true to one's own self... that's all that really matters. I love you very much and am sure you know that!!Shebahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03528196471903876013noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8639076133899625777.post-39958189839749351122011-04-07T12:14:15.090+05:302011-04-07T12:14:15.090+05:30Great...someone needed to say it. It irks me no en...Great...someone needed to say it. It irks me no end when the man appears to be painted white as lilly. In any relation both are as guilty OR as NOT guilty...its time society stopped over reacting to extra marital affairs & treat it like another problem. ..or maybe analyse it more rationally instead of putting stigma on one person.Maitreyee Bhattacharjee Chowdhuryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08034550682396215305noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8639076133899625777.post-44204564463088014972011-04-07T06:59:10.090+05:302011-04-07T06:59:10.090+05:30Great post! You are the inspiration in writing an ...Great post! You are the inspiration in writing an article.Rama Mohan Ahttp://lifestyle-india.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8639076133899625777.post-85705066628182591612011-04-06T21:14:11.502+05:302011-04-06T21:14:11.502+05:30For her, Hope Floats!!For her, Hope Floats!!Vyankateshhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04687142241635628089noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8639076133899625777.post-63966909314585370202011-04-06T05:17:57.861+05:302011-04-06T05:17:57.861+05:30Every now and again you come across an awesome pie...Every now and again you come across an awesome piece of writing. When its so emotive, and brings a deep understanding you know you have read something brilliant. I sit back in admiration. You have surpassed yourself here.Larry Lewishttp://www.healthylifestylesblog.co.uknoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8639076133899625777.post-18247844963102439122011-04-06T00:15:53.072+05:302011-04-06T00:15:53.072+05:30Alpana - You've expressed yourself so well her...Alpana - You've expressed yourself so well here. And I know many of us are jumping to conclusions and giving you unsolicited advice perhaps.I've gone way past what's right or wrong from society's point of view. But I would be more than a little concerned for all three people in such a situation. The 'other' woman - because perhaps she's cheating herself out of other relationships and more importantly she's 'settling' with not getting her due - and I don't mean marriage. The wife - who probably knows instinctively that her husband is not 'there' in the marriage. And the husband too who has no business to stay in a marriage if he feels it isn't working. I know it's all very easy for me to say. But having been single for years, I often found myself 'settling' for guys who were not completely 'available'. No they were not married but emotionally unavailable. And I wouldn't want that to happen to any other person. Hugssssss!Corrine Rodriguesnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8639076133899625777.post-85839068681465126002011-04-06T00:14:45.750+05:302011-04-06T00:14:45.750+05:30Not going to lie, this one is tough for me. I was ...Not going to lie, this one is tough for me. I was very ill when my husband left me for the "other woman." While the intent may not be to destroy relationships between husbands and wives, parents and children, these effects are often exactly what takes place. Much soul searching is needed to determine the extent of accountability we accept. My husband was the married one. If he wanted out to pursue another relationship, he should have left first. He could do the same to his former mistress/now wife. My prayers are with you. You are brave to put this out here! xoPamela Rossownoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8639076133899625777.post-21022865863967500272011-04-05T21:59:09.463+05:302011-04-05T21:59:09.463+05:30DEAR Alpana it takes a big heart to sympathize wit...DEAR Alpana it takes a big heart to sympathize with the other woman and youve prooved that u have one.reshma dugarnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8639076133899625777.post-51665951270194204952011-04-05T21:05:27.539+05:302011-04-05T21:05:27.539+05:30Alpana...I was really touched by your post! I gues...Alpana...I was really touched by your post! I guess we are all guilty of judging people and we should be careful as we never know what life has in store for us! I wish you all the love but most of all PEACE and happiness... I have a friend who is the married man..and he has decided on the other woman..as he considers her to be the ONE!! He has lost a lot of friends along the way!! I do not know the other woman..so I cannot speak for her!! ..Be strong and try not to lose yourself... Huggs!ruchi Kalrahttp://www.store.rgkdzines.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8639076133899625777.post-32995164650271313492011-04-05T18:29:29.877+05:302011-04-05T18:29:29.877+05:30One can never choose who we fall in love with. it ...One can never choose who we fall in love with. it is not easy on either side or person. great postSavira Guptahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17463773284421101573noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8639076133899625777.post-45072355950044257552011-04-05T18:12:43.739+05:302011-04-05T18:12:43.739+05:30Great post!! I can relate to this in many ways.......Great post!! I can relate to this in many ways.... We can't make the heart feel something it won't... and we can't make it stop feeling something it does... <br /><br />Never regret something that once made you happy! I said once to someone when she said to me "we were working it out" my reply was "well, if you were truly working it out then way was he there with her?" If its something "he didn't want" then it wouldn't have happened. Later she thanked me, telling me that "She" was working it out, while he had already moved on.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16972739790941695481noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8639076133899625777.post-11935523154529658332011-04-05T17:56:23.617+05:302011-04-05T17:56:23.617+05:30I have been the other woman and it has tugged at m...I have been the other woman and it has tugged at my heart how others see me and judge me without knowing my story. Needless to say I have judged me and harsher then what others have done. Thank you for posting this.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8639076133899625777.post-24974579556913896452011-04-05T17:53:58.870+05:302011-04-05T17:53:58.870+05:30Very well written Alpu, and from the bottom of the...Very well written Alpu, and from the bottom of the heart....enjoyed reading it!Swatihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16738935772751436796noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8639076133899625777.post-8634401371641917462011-04-05T16:18:51.694+05:302011-04-05T16:18:51.694+05:30U r an awesome writer, especially abt relationship...U r an awesome writer, especially abt relationships and love. <br />Always loves ur posts<br /><br />HugsJidhu Josehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06677595730307896302noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8639076133899625777.post-30335817465866097932011-04-05T16:09:52.381+05:302011-04-05T16:09:52.381+05:30Alpana, if you are in Love, you are in love. When ...Alpana, if you are in Love, you are in love. When I commented on your other post, in no time did I hold you responsible or have any bad feelings towards you. We have all been there regardless of sex or not and those that say that haven't are lying.<br /><br />Don't stop living either as in, if you find someone else you fancy, don't hesitate as you are not cheating on anyone but a cheater.<br />Be happy is my wish for you.alejandro guzmanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08444725035058665346noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8639076133899625777.post-29790995851987386082011-04-05T12:27:00.615+05:302011-04-05T12:27:00.615+05:30Closely resonates with my yday's post about lo...Closely resonates with my yday's post about love and illusion.<br /><br />Who attracts whom and at which phase of life is totally out of logic. There are many people who feel the attraction but keep it to themselves, killing all the passion - but yes, it could have saved another relationship. And yet others who nurture their owns and couldnt help affecting the other relationship. Its all a choice we make for ourselves and others. <br /><br />Appreciate your open heart and words. Good wishes!Nandhinihttp://pagesfromserendipity.wordpress.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8639076133899625777.post-17261281175435047532011-04-05T12:10:35.766+05:302011-04-05T12:10:35.766+05:30This happens mostly specially on net, it's rea...This happens mostly specially on net, it's really strange!.An attraction that takes us away , we don't have any control on our heart. ''Dil hai ki maanta nahi''.About this attraction I would say, that woman must have seen something special in that man ,that she never got in her entire life, that she was wishing for!<br />Liked the way you represented it!<br /><br />Take care!<br />Lot's of Love<br />Simran :)<br />I have an award for you !<br />Do check it on my blog :) :)Simranhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01931908983809822868noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8639076133899625777.post-24189850159061527512011-04-05T10:00:51.038+05:302011-04-05T10:00:51.038+05:30I found this intriguing and accurate in some cases...I found this intriguing and accurate in some cases, very few cases but, still. You can't blame a woman who gets involved with a man when he keeps his marriage a secret. But, a woman who knows should have enough respect for herself, the wife and the other man to just walk away and stay away. <br /><br />Relationships all have problems, some men don't do their part and the wife does it all while he is out shopping for something to do to make up for the fact he has to be responsible.<br /><br />The truth is many people blame the wife for not doing her "job" in the marriage when more than likely it is the man who isn't doing his. I'm not bashing men here, I am a married woman 17 yrs this Sept, he has never been unfaithful with another human, he has however avoided many of his husbandly and fatherly duties because of some insecure caveman-like misconceptions he was raised with. <br /><br />The reason the other woman gets the bad attention is because she should have enough sense to look for a single man instead of thinking "if it's not me it will be another woman." That is if she KNOWS he is married.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8639076133899625777.post-77831173590485334932011-04-05T02:47:40.488+05:302011-04-05T02:47:40.488+05:30Nicely done Alpana - there always is some justific...Nicely done Alpana - there always is some justification in a person't act. That does not make anyone bad or good. There sometimes is a good reason why the man strayed or what made the "other woman" give in to him. There is a lot beneath the surface.Kritihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06827714509776261027noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8639076133899625777.post-78558694551669833942011-04-04T22:13:23.710+05:302011-04-04T22:13:23.710+05:30http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8Lh9mwgqb-A this so...http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8Lh9mwgqb-A this song to me says it all. Brave and splendid post ;)Baldychazhttp://www.baldychaz.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8639076133899625777.post-87043133341795392432011-04-04T21:16:03.796+05:302011-04-04T21:16:03.796+05:30oh alpana... my mind tells me of my convictions an...oh alpana... my mind tells me of my convictions and principles in life as an advocate for women's rights and dignity... <br /><br />it isn't wrong to love... but i pray for one's inner freedom to do so... <br /><br />what gives you true peace? that holds the key...<br /><br />the twist here is... i fell for a man who though wasn't married was living in with somebody else... i didn't know he was until his friends told me...<br /><br />i was the "other woman"... i forgot my principles for a while... geez... it was a real struggle...<br /><br />but prayers awakened me to reality that he wasn't and will never be mine...<br />(he was the winter of my heart)...<br /><br />i always wanted his happiness... and that meant even if i were not part of it...<br /><br />i let him go...<br /><br />now choices are to be made... and it has to be you deciding for yourself...<br /><br />just listen to what your heart is truly telling you... the answer always lies within...Melissa Tandochttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13747825707650125721noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8639076133899625777.post-39037204967136843172011-04-04T21:02:17.776+05:302011-04-04T21:02:17.776+05:30wow Alpana gr88 post...
any woman can relate to it...wow Alpana gr88 post...<br />any woman can relate to it...Snehahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17704340653571725727noreply@blogger.com