Showing posts with label love. Show all posts
Showing posts with label love. Show all posts

Monday, March 19, 2012

Life: It’s a tough teacher actually. It teaches you everything whether you wish to learn or not.


Life: It’s a tough teacher actually. It teaches you everything whether you wish to learn or not. 




 I mean life does not care about your choices or your preferences in a way, it teaches you all good things that can be beneficial for your mental, social and spiritual growth as a person but it also teaches you the fallacies and gimmicks to survive in the tough world.......no reasons you like to learn it or not. 
Don't you think that we all have these common human traits in us to take advantage of others, play with others sentiments, and hurt them??
But it depends how you manage to control these feelings becoming a collective energy within making you turn animal ultimately. Here the goodness in us plays a vital role. Life gives us all the opportunities which we deserve. But life rests the power of decision-making on us to follow it or not. Life is a great teacher which teaches us in every second of life but it is our responsibility to obey them, take knowledge from it. Our ability is not judged by our specialties but it is judged by our decisions. It's all what I think about the life.

As most of my blogger friends know, I have been missing from the blogging world for a long time, this is because I was fighting some real tough legal battles, and it’s not that I didn’t have time, I just couldn’t concentrate, I will not say that I have emerged a winner, though my family feels so, the biggest compliment I got was, “You made “US” proud”.
After fighting this battle for six months, communicating between 2000 kms every 15 days, all of a sudden an inner voice said to me to compromise, to stop what I was doing, and I followed that and did it. I have taken notice that the deeper I know about myself, the clearer I understand others. I have lost out on serious amount of money in doing so, but believe me, for the past two days, I am suddenly at peace with myself, and I am happy. As a child, I always thought the expression “it’s better to give than to receive” was trifle and silly. Today as an adult, I recognize the expression’s value. Having the capacity to give means you possess a mindset of abundance. Having the will to give means you want to make a difference in the world. Having the desire to give means you care.
I realized that as you strive to achieve your goals and dreams you can count on there being some fairly substantial disappointments along the way. Don’t get discouraged, the road to your dreams may not be an easy one. Think of these disappointments as challenges - tests of persistence and courage - that life throws at you during your journey. They are necessary and are meant to help you grow as a person.
My belief in God has rekindled once again, and I know this would have never been possible without the love and support of so many of you people.
A lot of people passed, and threw my life; each in their way taught me things I will never forget! I only wish I knew the names of every person who ever left an imprint on my life. Good or bad, those people will never know how much I thank them for what small moments in my life they spent. Each taught me a lesson. Those who's kind words found their way to me, I would wholeheartedly welcome back again. Those of harsh words or actions I would still thank them for the lesson they taught me! In my life I will say I've known evil and good in humans. I've known angels, spirits and ghosts and all manner of entities, and it has made for an interesting life!! My Mother always says, everything that passes through your life is with a reason, good or bad there is a lesson to be learned. And I have learned plenty......And I am back!!!!!!

CopyrightMotifs@2012
Pictures:Courtesy Google Images


Friday, January 27, 2012

Letter to you Sweetheart


Letter to you Sweetheart


Jaan,
This may not come as a surprise to you,after all the messages I keep sending you 24 hours....but I just wanted to do this today.
I want to start from the beginning,I'll never forget my first official date with you.....our first kiss,something which we both will treasure always.
Your openess,making me feel comfortable,was what drew me to you.
In a world full of anticipation and thrill, every time I saw you, my heart defeated my chest, and warmth came over my entire body. I was breathing for a reason...and I knew it was for you. I gave up sleep to finish time with you and I wouldn't change any of it. You have altered my life dramatically and as I gaze at the past few months, and I love you more with each sunset,and with each dawn that comes my way.
I may not always be great to you, infact at times I wonder as to how on earth do you put up with my nonsense,but at the end of each day, I am so thankful that you came into my life. You are the best thing that ever happened to me. You are not my first love, but that does not make my love for you any lesser.When I look into your eyes,I feel secure. The mere thought of you makes me smile. It puts me in a deep dream…one which I never want to get out of! As you always tell me,to be my age,I can’t help but feel hopelessly in love with you.I love you sweetheart….your smile…your eyes…the warmth in your hands…everything.I love you more than words can ever say.
For a million reasons, God brought you and I together,this is the world you have created, your genesis,your beginning that has no end, and my love for you will live forever,this ethereal wonderland of longing to be closer than close, and no matter how far it is, always near, for I carry you like my breath always within,and my lips will speak only of you, forever....
With all my love,passion in my heart,and that smile on your face, it's hard not to love you.
Loving you always,
Alpana

Copyright@Motifs2012
Labels: Heart,love,passion
Picture: Courtesy Google Images




Thursday, January 19, 2012

I BELIEVE IN YOU


I BELIEVE IN YOU

The purpose of a relationship is not to have someone who might make you complete, but to have someone with whom you share your incompleteness….




I believe in your kiss
I believe in your touch
And the way you make me feel
I believe in your eyes
That gives me assurance

I believe in your mouth
And your sweet taste
And the softness of the words
You speak
I believe your love has taken me places
I never dreamed possible

I believe in your laughter
Your tears
Of caring and of understanding
I believe that your love has made
Me a better human being

I believe your compassion and
Patience have enriched all who
Have come to know you
I believe because of you
I am  lucky

I believe in you and in everything you
Say and do
I believe that you have made my world a better place
Making me feel safe and secure

I believe in Love, always and forever
I believe in us, you and I together
I believe that if love asks a question, do not deceive
For the truth is the answer, I only believe
If love and life I was asked to compare
Both of these with you I wish to always share..............

Copyright@Motifs2012
Picture: Courtesy Google Images

Wednesday, November 9, 2011

MY LOVE….


MY LOVE….



Last night before went to bed
Thoughts of you filled me
Though I have not cried this way in a long time
Onto my pillow fell silent tears
I cried thinking of your smile
My tears streaming down
Thinking of the times you have held me
Making me feel secure
Of all the moments you have made me feel wanted

Dreams were given to a woman like me
And a lonely woman's dreams came true
If I was given a chance to wish
I'd wish for me to always love you
And the other I'd give it to you
For you are the one
Who makes me complete
You've captured my heart
And touched my soul


For how could I describe our love
Romantic love
Spent in self-indulgent wishes
And thoughts of long awaited kisses
Of sweet embraces, tender sighs
And gazing into love filled eyes
Oh yes, it is that kind of love

Or, is it yet the love of passion
The ecstasy that knows no reason
That shuddering nerve tingling feeling
The climax with your senses reeling
The wondrous joy when you discover
That sweet surrender to your lover
Oh yes, it's that kind of love too

Or even yet a love that grows
One that cares and one that knows
That sees beyond the outer skin
Into the person deep within
That loves the spirit and the soul
The inner self that makes the whole
Built on trust and empathy
A love you know was meant to be

For you are the one
That stepped into my dreams
Gave me new hope
Showed me what love means
If my tears could write a love song
I'd write a song for you
It would explain just how I feel inside
And how much I love you
But my tears can't write a love song
But when they fall, they fall for you alone
I've learned the full meaning
Of being in love
By being and loving with you


I thought love was just a mirage of the mind
It's an illusion, impossible to find
But the day I met you, I began to see
That love is real
And it exists in me


The love we share is all these things
A love that has no need of rings
A love you never need to doubt
A love I cannot live without
A love to last us all our days
A love I'll share with you always………..
Loving you forever………….

Copyright@Motifs2011
Labels:Love,tears,soul,heart
Picture:Courtesy Google Images


 



Friday, October 28, 2011

POE-A-TREE HOP


What Does the Light of One Little Candle Mean to Me….Love




Roy Durham is author of Roy's Garage Sell and Auction.  He also is the creator of the Poe-a-tree Hop.  This Hop's theme is “What does the light of one little candle means to you?”

If you would like to participate, jump in and be sure to leave your link at Roy's site on his linky tool so we can all enjoy your contribution!

What Does the Light of One Little Candle Mean to Me….Love


And I will light a candle for you
To shatter all the darkness we have know
Like a beacon in the night
The flame will always burn bright 
I will light a candle
And see it glow
Watch it dance
When you feel low
Think of me
Think of the light
I'll always be there with you

The candle will always flicker
Maybe out of sight
But in your heart
It will still burn bright
Love is like a candlelight

Glowing in the dark
The warmness kindles
From a tiny spark
A gentle word like a spark of light
Illuminating my soul
And as each beam of light gets brighter
It's you that makes me whole

There is no corner, no dark place
Your love cannot fill
And if the world starts causing waves
It's your flame of love that will make them still
And yes you always speak to me
In sweet honesty and truth
I love the way I love you
Like a love I can't control
So remember whenever your eyes meet mine
I will love you with all my heart
And I have given my entire soul to you
Right from the very start
Forever…..

Copyright@2011
Labels: Candle, love, flame
Picture: Courtesy Google Images


Tuesday, October 18, 2011

YouTube Tuesday




YouTube Tuesday adopted from Josh at Its Tiger Time, is a day set aside for sharing your favorite video. Feel free to join in each week and see how creative we bloggers can be. Each month, Josh will highlight a selected video and present the winner with the ‘You Tube Tuesday’ Award.

If you participate, remember to leave your YouTube Tuesday link at Its Tiger Time as well as all the blogs you visit.....♫♫♫

"We Found Love", this song was introduced to me by my dearest friend …thank you so much sweetheart for this beautiful song.





"We Found Love"

Rihanna
(feat. Calvin Harris)

Yellow diamonds in the light
Now we’re standing side by side
As your shadow crosses mine
What it takes to come alive

It’s the way I’m feeling I just can’t deny
But I’ve gotta let it go

We found love in a hopeless place
We found love in a hopeless place
We found love in a hopeless place
We found love in a hopeless place

Shine a light through an open door
Love and life I will divide
Turn away 'cause I need you more
Feel the heartbeat in my mind

It’s the way I’m feeling I just can’t deny
But I’ve gotta let it go

We found love in a hopeless place
We found love in a hopeless place
We found love in a hopeless place
We found love in a hopeless place

Yellow diamonds in the light
Now we’re standing side by side
As your shadow crosses mine

We found love in a hopeless place
We found love in a hopeless place
We found love in a hopeless place
We found love in a hopeless place

We found love in a hopeless place
We found love in a hopeless place
We found love in a hopeless place
We found love in a hopeless place


Copyright@Motifs2011
Labels: Love, diamonds,sky
Video: Courtesy YouTube


Monday, October 17, 2011

I AM ME


I am me



I know but not completely of how I feel or who I am, I am only me, that is all that I can be, no more, no less. I look ahead but also behind for answers, I see the future but don’t forget mistakes. I am always questioning the unanswerable. 
I am confident but unsure of myself, I am lonely even though I am with people. I am tired but I can’t sleep, I am happy but I am deeply troubled. I am present here but I still feel lost. I am thoughtful without any answers. I am strong but deep inside, I am scared. I am quiet but I still have a lot to say. I stay silent, but I can hear myself screaming. I am colorful in a world of black and white.


I am a mother, and my daughter is my greatest gift. The smiles on her face always give me a lift.
I love and I am loved, but I still want more. I am a loyal and an honest friend, you know that I’ll be there until the end. I am romantic, sensual, and passionate too. I love, I laugh, and I live and cry, I am not perfect, I do have my faults. I’m not as forgiving, as I’d sometimes like to be, because when I hurt, I hurt deeply. My logic is all my own, at times misunderstood, because I don’t always do things for my own good.
I have many facets you see…
I am all this
I am only me
I am me....

Copyright@Motifs
Labels: Myself, I, love, cry
Picture: Courtesy Google Images


Wednesday, September 7, 2011

ETERNITY..



Let's make a collage of articles.

"SOUL-MATES"
Friends,
You are invited to my collage making event. All you need to bring to the event is your article on soul mates. Do you believe in soul mates? How and where can you find your soul mate? Does everyone have one?
If you are interested in helping me make this collage, then Please leave your name and blog link at the bottom of the page, before 7th September.
Sulekha sulekkha.blogspot.com
 



ETERNITY 
Is there truly a soul mate? Someone on whom you can always depend? Someone who brings sunshine into your life, more than a lover and always a friend? When you hear their voice and know that you are safe...It is then when a smile lights up your face…..you will know that they love you truly. Perhaps it was fate ....For you have found your SOUL MATE…..

My soul mate's eyes says it all
Bold and true
That sees quite through
My soul mate's face is refined
Beauty combined with a brilliant mind
My soul mate's will is strong
And to him I truly do belong
Whether it is right or wrong

It's completely amazing
How immediately you know
When you have found that someone
Who you just cannot let go
And you are that someone
Perfection you can say
You are that someone
Who took all my pain away

I plan to show you forever
Just how you helped me heal
I plan to use forever
To show you this is real
You are the one I was waiting for

I may have loved before
But this is nothing in comparison
With what I feel for you
You are my only love
My greatest love
My missing piece
My dream come true
The man I prayed for, and loved

You have my heart
You have my soul
You have my trust
It's all yours to hold
I trust you with everything
It's terrifying, but true

Your love will sustain my soul
As I know our souls are bound together for eternity
You are my soul’s match and my destiny
I will love you all the days of my life
And through eternity.....

 


Copyright@Motifs2011
Labels: Soulmate, love, hope, eternity
Picture: Courtesy Google Images



Saturday, August 20, 2011

I AM BEAUTIFUL


I AM BEAUTIFUL


Real beauty isn't just about being born beautiful and having a good figure. It is so much more. People can be beautiful when they have a wonderful smile and are happy with themselves. They radiate a glow which makes them stand out from the crowd. Beauty can also be in a voice which is calming and reassuring to the listener and most of all beauty can come from within a person. Someone who is helpful, kind and has time for others also have their own inner radiance and after all looks will fade in time and if you haven't got anything else such as personality or kindness you really are a plain person in the end.
Physical beauty may capture your attention but in reality its inner beauty that captures your heart. I think everyone has something beautiful about them, but a good personality is much harder to find. Beauty is only skin deep, true beauty comes from within. It is integrity, truth, kindness and simplicity. It transcends the physical and touches the spiritual. Beauty is brave and not weak; it does not react out of fear and does not hold grudges. It is a soft touch or a warm smile. Beauty is a helping hand and or a kind word. It is generous, not greedy, and never critical. Beauty is peace filled with contentment. Beauty can be complex but must be understanding to be understood. Beauty is timeless and age can never tarnish it.
I know this line will sound a bit corny… beauty lies is in the eyes of the beholder. Someone who's truly in love with you loves you with your flaws, both physical and in personality. Yes, we are sexual beings and physical attraction does play a role in romantic relationships, but anyone worth staying with does not expect you to look your best all the time.
Beauty should radiate, and not questioned,always being real and natural. Beauty is what's real.... what's truly real. Beauty is what feels good, having no regrets... feeling actually good without any regrets.
To me, beauty is a decision. It's the decision to start liking what you see in the mirror and not be limited by what is not perfect about your appearance. It is a secret sometimes hidden to others, profound and wonderful when discovered in one's own true self. It's the decision to be kinder to others so you can love yourself for who you are, but forgive yourself when you do make a mistake. It should reflect inner calmness, a person who shines through the most difficult times with a smile because they know there is someone worse than themselves...giving a part of themselves for others....doing tasks which others find repulsive....helping others without looking for a reward....that’s being beautiful.
Beauty to me is to know who I am. Beauty is me and my Soul. Beauty to me is….Honesty, Forgiveness, Courage and being able to love myself. No-one can love you unless YOU love yourself.

Go on, smile and your whole face lights up and your eyes shine ...... you are beautiful aren't you?????

Copyright@Motifs2011

Labels: Beauty,love,life,soul
Picture:Courtesy Google Images




Friday, August 12, 2011

Heartache


Heartache

This post is for two very special people in my life,I call them my soul sisters... Rimly Bezbaruah & Melissa Tandoc. I love you both,and this is my way of saying,you both are "THE BEST"...


Do you ever truly get over the most intense relationship in your life? Has the person you love more than anything in the world left you? Did the two of you break up? Have you been dumped, slighted, walked out on, or deserted for another? Does your heart ache and ache endlessly? Have you lost sleep, your appetite, or even your job? Are you caught in the grief? 
You always remember the love which gave you the most happiness, that person who swept you off your feet. Even though your relationship came to an end, is it ever possible to forget? Can you move on completely, or do you compare all future relationships to your "special" love?

"Sometimes losing your mate to a breakup can be far more devastating than losing someone to death"....
It is said that the second most intense life stresser is loss of love. The first is death. But I question this? Both are final. Both, in most cases, result in the physical removal of someone special from your life. Both result in the loss of a way of life we have become familiar with.  However with death you have the peace of knowing you were in your lost loved one's heart. You know you were not abandoned purposely, cast aside, or rejected. With death you can take off work and get sympathy. You can go through closing rituals and you can feel contentment that they are in a better place. But with breakups, separation, or divorce, even though you have the assurance that they are still alive somewhere on this Earth, their love was intentionally withdrawn from you. You no longer have their presence, nor their care. You can't have that person....And that is some pain.
The past hurts....especially if it involves someone you deeply loved....but there is one thing you can do....always be positive about yourself....when you think about the past, you feel demotivated and you tend to put all the blame on yourself and that is when you feel low. Do you think you would have been depressed if you put all the blame over your partner? Don't hurt yourself by thinking about the past,its not going to help you.Its going to make things far worse! As you move on....your past will mould you to a better person, that is if you try to be in a position to be “yourself”and learn to love yourself.Your past is what makes you who you are today....and in the future.
When you’ve lost someone you love, it’s easy to focus on the better parts of your relationship and life together. But, there was a reason you broke up, maybe even several reasons. Don’t ignore the “bad” parts of the relationship and idealize only the best portions…..instead, keep reminding yourself that you’re letting go of the past because holding on to it isn’t good for you.
There are some things we never ever get over, but we can still live a full and rewarding life and achieve our goals. Part of letting go of someone you love is accepting that you may never have all the answers. No matter how good, smart, helpful, giving, or attractive you are, you can’t control other people. If they leave you, they have their reasons….and sometimes those reasons have nothing to do with you. The sooner you accept your lack of control, the easier it’ll be to let go of someone you love. Letting go of the past isn't magic,you think and its done with.... You’re free, healed, and happy! Rather, letting go is a journey sprinkled with steps forward and steps backward, good days and bad days.
I think today I can say that I have learned how to love, let go, and open my heart to love again. And I’ve survived those heart-wrenching, gut twisting breakups that slam you to the ground and rip you to pieces.
Letting go is a process that takes time...and believe me,its not easy.
Let go..... Understand that there is no benefit in holding on to heartache, regret, and hatred toward another person. Realize that although it is over, your relationship with that person was unique and special in a lot of ways. You can congratulate yourself for being brave enough to take a risk and fall in love, and encourage your heart that even though love didn't work out this time, there will be a next time. Keep reminding yourself that a relationship is one part of life, but even when you are in one, there are personal pleasures that you can always enjoy on your own. Indulge in those things now.
As they say, the best revenge is living well....And for a change.....Enjoy being single......
That was the ultimate lesson in powerlessness and letting go for me.

Copyright@Motifs2011
Labels: Heartache,pain,love,life,letting go
Picture:Courtesy Google Images



Friday, May 6, 2011

Aishani - My Beloved Daughter


"BELOVED, YOU ARE MY SISTER,YOU ARE MY DAUGHTER,YOU ARE MY FACE,YOU ARE ME.........."Toni Morrison                    
                                                                         
 GOD MADE ME AND THEN HE CREATED YOU...HE 
WHISPERED GENTLY..."MADE TO BE"  
    

Sweetheart, when I first came to know that you were inside me, there was excitement, an enticement; the feeling of magic and growth inside me. It was the possibility of life growing within that always haunts and delights a young girl as she grows into womanhood. Parts of my fantasy were coming true as the months of pregnancy passed by and when I first felt you move within my womb, it was the sweetest and most memorable sensation of my life. There was life within me. With God’s Grace, I had created you. I couldn't wait for your arrival as I knew that you would change my life forever. 

Aishani, when you were in my arms for the first time and I came face to face with you my little angel, I realized that not only were you my little baby, a woman to be, but also you would be my own unresolved conflicts from the past and my dreams for the future.Being a mother I felt that it’s like a promise from God quite like a spiritual umbilical cord...a link given directly from above which no other relationship can ever have. Holding you close to me, I felt there was a magical closed circle, the miraculous sense of bonding that only a mother and child can feel.  

As you are now growing up into a beautiful young lady, I know your world is different from the one in which I had at your age. I am trying my best in coming to terms with it. But always remember that even if you feel I am wrong I will understand what you want. Baby, you are my daughter, my friend by choice, a blessing for me from above. I love you with all my heart. I am your keeper till you are mature enough to keep yourself. I will hold your hand a little, but your heart, forever...

YOU ARE AN EXTENSION OF ME!   I want to give you trust and stability. You can count on me for all the things that matters most to you. I have dreams for you, great dreams.  I want you to look at the stars, for, there is one for you and I will reach out for it however hard it may be, so that you get everything you deserve in life. I will protect you, fight for you, love you, hug you, kiss you, hold you, laugh with you, cry with you. But, if you are falling, I will never let you because I will be there to hold you tight. I will always try and look for anything that disturbs you, because I want you to have a better life, a million times better than I ever had.  
Wherever life takes you, even if you don't see me around,don't ever think that I have left you alone. No matter what happens, I'll be there. They say nothing lasts forever but, where you are concerned, Aishani, I am a firm believer in the fact that that you are a gift from God to me, my most precious possession, my greatest asset. I am proud to have you as my daughter. You are the very meaning of my existence on this earth.

From your first breath till my last, I will never stop loving you!

Copyright@Motifs2010

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